Comments on: How can YOU change someone’s life for the better? http://www.enlivent.com/blog/2010/02/how-can-you-change-someones-life-for-the-better/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-can-you-change-someones-life-for-the-better Making a Change for GOOD Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:58:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jehoshua Kilen http://www.enlivent.com/blog/2010/02/how-can-you-change-someones-life-for-the-better/comment-page-1/#comment-27 Jehoshua Kilen Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:58:20 +0000 http://www.enlivent.com/blog/?p=117#comment-27 Without knowing the situation you are referencing... my guess would be that you have either mis-judged or have been misinformed about the person's ACTUAL expectations and therefore it will be nearly impossible to exceed them. <br><br>Just because a person tells you something will make them happy doesn't mean it actually will. We often don't know our own minds and in some cases people will be outright deceptive. You would do well to look at past behavior to get a better idea of his or her future expectations. What we have expected in the past or strived to accomplish in the past is a good indication of what we want down the road. Without knowing the situation you are referencing… my guess would be that you have either mis-judged or have been misinformed about the person's ACTUAL expectations and therefore it will be nearly impossible to exceed them.

Just because a person tells you something will make them happy doesn't mean it actually will. We often don't know our own minds and in some cases people will be outright deceptive. You would do well to look at past behavior to get a better idea of his or her future expectations. What we have expected in the past or strived to accomplish in the past is a good indication of what we want down the road.

]]> By: joshkilen http://www.enlivent.com/blog/2010/02/how-can-you-change-someones-life-for-the-better/comment-page-1/#comment-22 joshkilen Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:58:20 +0000 http://www.enlivent.com/blog/?p=117#comment-22 Without knowing the situation you are referencing... my guess would be that you have either mis-judged or have been misinformed about the person's ACTUAL expectations and therefore it will be nearly impossible to exceed them. <br><br>Just because a person tells you something will make them happy doesn't mean it actually will. We often don't know our own minds and in some cases people will be outright deceptive. You would do well to look at past behavior to get a better idea of his or her future expectations. What we have expected in the past or strived to accomplish in the past is a good indication of what we want down the road. Without knowing the situation you are referencing… my guess would be that you have either mis-judged or have been misinformed about the person's ACTUAL expectations and therefore it will be nearly impossible to exceed them.

Just because a person tells you something will make them happy doesn't mean it actually will. We often don't know our own minds and in some cases people will be outright deceptive. You would do well to look at past behavior to get a better idea of his or her future expectations. What we have expected in the past or strived to accomplish in the past is a good indication of what we want down the road.

]]> By: Suzan http://www.enlivent.com/blog/2010/02/how-can-you-change-someones-life-for-the-better/comment-page-1/#comment-21 Suzan Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:51:27 +0000 http://www.enlivent.com/blog/?p=117#comment-21 What if you do exactly what they expect of you & then some? Meaning a whole lot more as well?...But they are still disappointed?...What IF no matter what you do...they are just NEVER HAPPY??? Then what? What if you do exactly what they expect of you & then some? Meaning a whole lot more as well?…But they are still disappointed?…What IF no matter what you do…they are just NEVER HAPPY??? Then what?

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